Sunday, December 14, 2008

A child soldier's life . . .

This Sunday, God opened my eyes to a story that is amazing, troubling, and soul-stirring.I had previously met John (above) in church, and I knew he came from Sudan. Today he greeted me in Swahili. I expressed surprise because few Sudanese people speak Swahili. John told me that he had lived in a refugee camp in Kenya for many years.

After the service, I asked John to tell me more about his life. His story came pouring out -- as though he had been holding it inside until someone finally asked.

John, agreed to let me share his story. Though the pictures that follow are not John's, they are of boys just like him.

When John was a very little boy in Sudan, his father got sick and died. Later his mother died, too, leaving John with an older sister and a younger brother. John had no food and no protection, so when rebel soldiers captured him, he had no option but to join. He went through a period of training. Then he was handed a gun.John doesn't know how old he is, but he estimates he was about 10 when he became a soldier. He spent many years fighting. His body is peppered with scars from bullets. Many of the bullets are still inside him. He has one in his neck and several others that he showed me.After John had been fighting for several years, he was walking one day with 2 other boy soldiers. They set off a land mine. John was severely wounded. No one thought he would live. John felt sure he was going to die.The Red Cross took him to a hospital. While John was recovering, he met a Sudanese woman named Suzana. She was married to an important man and they had three children. Suzana loved John and told him not to return to Sudan when he was well. She wanted him to join her family as a son.

When he recovered, John moved into Kakuma refugee camp in northern Kenya. He stayed with Suzana's family until time came for him to be resettled. Suzana cried many tears when she said goodbye to John.John has lived in Atlanta for more than 2 years. He has a job at a meat factory. Everyone told him to save money to buy a car. John said he did not want to buy a car. He saved his money so he could go back to Africa and visit Suzana.

This fall, John finally got his green card, his travel documents, and his ticket. Suzana now lives in Kampala, Uganda. John will fly there in January and return in March. Suzana will take him back into Sudan so he can try to find his sister. John's brother was killed, and his sister is mentally disturbed from the trauma and suffering she experienced. John wants to see her again, along with his uncle and other extended family members.

While I listened to my new friend, I could hear the pain in his voice and see the tears filling his eyes. Please pray for John -- for safety as he travels on yet another long journey, for healing in his heart and body, and for all the boy soldiers in Africa.So, one of the "Lost Boys of Sudan" has found a home. Not only does John have friends in Africa and America, but he is a Christian who holds his faith in God close to his heart. Those of us who follow Christ know that this world is not our home. We are just passing through -- sometimes with unimaginable suffering -- to our true home in the arms of Jesus.

Surprised by Joy!

Two Missouri churches provided joyous Christmas blessings for our refugee friends. Under the leadership of pastor Mark Kiekhaefer, Grace Evangelical Free Church of Jefferson City informed their small groups about our needs. Pastor Bob Aubuchon of First Baptist Church Camdenton put out the word to the Women on Missions group led by Dori Swenson. And did these groups step up to the plate!

C.S. Lewis wrote a book called Surprised by Joy. That's how we felt as we opened envelopes from the two churches and then set off to shop for our refugee families from Somalia, Sudan (Darfur), Burundi, and Bhutan.

Thanks to these loving churches, 6 refugee women, 5 men, and 25 children will not only receive gifts from Christians, but they will hear the reason we celebrate -- the gift of Jesus Christ our sacrifice and our savior.

Mungu asifiwe! Praise God!

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Faces of the day . . .

Some days, the faces of my people move me beyond words. I am captured, delighted, bemused, and amused by these beautiful children of God. (photo removed by request)

My Somali friend asked me to take her to the farmer's market today. She was out of food, she said. Not surprising in a home with a husband, wife, seven children, and usually a few guests. Kelly agreed to stay with the four preschool children while we shopped. (photo removed by request)

Here's baby boy . . .
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Big brother . . .
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Bigger brother . . .
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Biggest brother . . .
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Thanks to Atlanta Vineyard Church in Norcross, we brought clothing for each member of this big family. We also gave the boys this bead toy. It was a hit!
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This young man -- just in from the refugee camp in Kenya -- helps my friend watch her children. He has special needs, and I'm hoping that here in America he can make good progress toward a fulfilling future.
We stopped at our next home to find the mom away at her English class. We visited with her husband for a while, and then she returned to the house. How do you like the way she carries her book bag?
We also gave clothing to this family of 10. Mom desperately needed a warm coat, and we were so grateful to be able to provide one for her.

At this house, we had clothes for mom, dad, and four children. Dad was especially pleased with his new leather jacket. He looked very handsome -- and he knew it! Our families are all struggling to survive. They don't have enough money for rent and other basic needs. The fear and stress is palpable. Please pray for refugees . . . they have survived genocide but they still face fear and worry each day.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Sew happy!

Our sewing class has great news. An area church is partnering with us to promote and sell our handiwork! They will also be teaching economics as well as offering micro-loans so the ladies can buy their own machines and supplies. Wow! We had a lot of fun today. Almost everyone completed the current projects: a doll blanket, a fabric tote bag, and a quilt.
I brought tea, milk, and sugar so we could take refreshment now and then.Our class garners a LOT of interest. Passers-by love to peek in to see what we're doing. We already have a new group of ladies eager to take the beginner class in January. Today, several men popped in. We learned that in Nepal, the MEN had sewing jobs -- making saris and other clothing on foot-pedal machines.We're getting low on fabric but I found a store that sells it for $1 a yard. We're also using recycled cotton clothing for our projects.

I get to work with the loveliest ladies! What joy I feel every Monday morning when it's time for sewing class. Thank you for praying for these precious women.

Christmas in Rome!

This past Saturday night, we went "home to Rome!" Rome, Georgia, that is! Angie Stone, the beautiful mother of our dear Missouri friend Rodney Stone, invited me to speak during "Decoration Night" at Hollywood Baptist Church. I was so happy that Tim did the driving, and Kelly came along for the fun, too. I loved having them join me for this special evening. Just look at the table behind us! Ladies from the church had decorated each table with a different theme. All were so beautiful. One table held my favorite china pattern, Old Country Roses. Gorgeous!We ate a delicious catered buffet dinner. After a trio sang several familiar Christmas songs, I talked about God's work in my life through my books and through my ministry to refugees. My mother taught me to talk with my hands. I can't seem to say a word without waving them in every direction!At the end of the evening, I had the joy of autographing books for the women of the church. What great financial support they gave us by purchasing so many of my novels. We are grateful for that help. As our missions supervisor says, "We live by faith . . . but we live ON money!" Amen.
The highlight of the evening was getting to know Angie. Kelly and I loved her so much that we tried to figure out how we could bundle her up and bring her back to Clarkston with us! There's no doubt our refugee friends would adore her, too. What a lovely evening . . . what lovely new friends . . . what a blessed season of joy in Jesus Christ!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Afterschool snacks in the village

I decided to stay home today. God had other plans!

One of my refugee friends called to say she was having trouble with her paperwork. Would I please come and help her? I rounded up Kelly and off we went. At the home, Kelly kept baby Alice busy while her mother and I worked. I love my Burundian friend, a married mother of three. Her face always radiates her passion for Jesus. Today, after the paperwork was done, she brought out two Bibles. She asked me to read passages in Revelation and Jeremiah in English while she followed in her Kirundi Bible. Then she sang a beautiful hymn in her high, sweet voice. Her hymnbook came with her from the refugee camp in Tanzania. It has been well loved.Afterward, we paid a visit to the family whose 4 children were taken because of the mother's drinking. They are going to court this Friday. Please pray for that situation.

Next we dropped in on our friends who arrived in America only a two months ago. This woman is the ideal mother. She is warm, gentle, kind, and loving in all she does. As usual, her home was filled to the brim with bouncy children -- all just in from a long school day. She has given birth to eight and adopted one. But her house is kid-central. It was hard to distinguish her children from the others!In the kitchen, I discovered a real African village scene. All the children had gathered around a plate of rice, peas, and meat -- on the floor! A few kids had spoons, but others just grabbed.Everyone was having a great time! It wasn't long before they had eaten every morsel.Then it was time to clean up. One boy got the broom and set to work sweeping while little sister observed.The house was freezing, and I learned the heater was broken. After saying goodbye to the family, Kelly and I stopped at the office. The manager said the heating element in their furnace had died. She promised to send over some space heaters until the missing part arrived. She knows what it's like to be a refugee, she told us. She came 12 years ago as a refugee from Bosnia!

My families all need coats, socks, shoes, sweaters, stocking caps, and mittens. If God leads you to provide a warm Christmas for one of my families, please let me know. Remember you're always welcome in the village. We might even put a snack on the floor just for you!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Cough, cough...


This is the 11th day of the worst cold of my adult life. Tim took me to the doctor this afternoon, and I am now on an antibiotic. So, that's why I haven't updated our blog. Maybe I can convince Tim to tell you about his life. He's got some great things going on in Jesus' name!

Meanwhile, thanks to all of you who have been praying for us and for the immigrant and refugee families we serve. We are seeing God move in mighty . . . and mysterious . . . ways.

Let me give an example. Son #2, Andrei, lost his cell phone the other day. We all prayed. He looked around everywhere for it, retracing his steps to the grocery and hardware stores. I left a message on the phone saying that our son has a disability, autism, and he really needs his phone.

This afternoon I got a call. A young man -- who is also autistic-- found Andrei's phone in the street. Martin lives near Andrei, goes to church and small group, and is part of an autism support group helping each other find jobs.

How do you explain THAT except as the hand of Almighty God?

Also, we are seeing a real softening in the hearts of the refugee women we serve. One woman who is of another religion has visited our church two weeks in a row -- with her whole family. Another woman, of yet another religious background, has asked to spend Christmas with me.

On those happy notes, I'll go blow my nose and try to get a decent night's sleep. Tomorrow will be a better day!